Behaviors to Avoid If You're Looking for Love

Punishing the Messenger

The misguided need to attack the innocent who are usually only trying to help them.

Adding Too Much Value

This is the “something to prove person.” The overwhelming desire to add their 2 cents to every discussion.

Passing Judgement

The need to rate others and impose standards on them.  Unless their name is Jesus, this is not a becoming characteristic.

Starting with NO, BUT, HOWEVER

I strongly encourage not surrounding yourself with these types of people. The overuse of these negative qualifiers which
secretly say to everyone that I’m right and you’re wrong.

Starting with NO, BUT, HOWEVER

I strongly encourage not surrounding yourself with these types of people. The overuse of these negative qualifiers which
secretly say to everyone that I’m right and you’re wrong.

Failing to Give Proper Recognition

The inability to give praise and reward is just plain mean. Even Hitler handed out bonuses.

Refusing to Express Regret

The inability to take responsibility for their actions, admit they’re wrong, or recognize how their actions affect others. Think Dick Cheney.