Unless you met the love of your life
and stayed with them forever, you
must have experienced the ending of a
love affair. Here are some tips on
overcoming a breakup:
1) Be nice to yourself: =>> While you
may be feeling low and unloved, the
end of a relationship doesn’t have to
mean you stay on your own forever.
Mr or Ms Right could be the next
person to walk through the door. In
the meantime be nice to yourself. Do
all the things you wanted to do but
your last lover wasn’t interested in.
There are probably some shows and
films that you would love to see. Grab
some friends and head out for the
evening.
2) Don’t be seen as being desperate:
=>> Desperation is not an attractive
emotion in anyone. If you want your ex
to take you back, you need to show
them what they are missing. They
won’t want someone who is miserable
all the time. They want the person they
originally fell in love with.........So
despite how you are feeling you always
need to present the best side of you in
public. Dress nicely so you look great
and above all plaster a smile on your
face. Even if you feel like you are going
to die from the pain, you never know
when you will meet your ex or a
mutual friend, so act happy; even if it is
the performance of your life. You can
cry into your pillow when you are
home alone.
3) Don’t let your life stop: =>> Yes! I
said you could cry into your pillow but I
didn’t mean all day every day. Feeling
miserable after a break up is natural
but if you wallow in self pity, you
generally end up feeling worse. There
is more to life than any partner so get
out there and start enjoying yourself.
You may have to pretend for a while
but soon you will find that you are
actually having fun again.
4) Don’t over-analyze what went
wrong: =>> Yes we need to learn from
our mistakes but the breakup may not
have been your fault. It could simply
be that the other person got scared of
commitment i.e. cold feet. If they get in
contact , agree to meet them for a
coffee or tea and see how things go.
Be polite and listen to what they have
to say. If they want you back, don’t be
too eager, but agree to see how it
goes......If you were the one who
finished things, but now realize you
made a mistake, tell your ex. They are
not mind readers and they won’t know
you want to rekindle your love affair
unless you tell them.
Men and women often get things
wrong as we see life so differently.
Sometimes we have to split from our
partner to realize what we had was real
love. Often a break and a little
communication goes a long way to
overcoming a breakup and getting
back together.
overcoming a breakup:
1) Be nice to yourself: =>> While you
may be feeling low and unloved, the
end of a relationship doesn’t have to
mean you stay on your own forever.
Mr or Ms Right could be the next
person to walk through the door. In
the meantime be nice to yourself. Do
all the things you wanted to do but
your last lover wasn’t interested in.
There are probably some shows and
films that you would love to see. Grab
some friends and head out for the
evening.
2) Don’t be seen as being desperate:
=>> Desperation is not an attractive
emotion in anyone. If you want your ex
to take you back, you need to show
them what they are missing. They
won’t want someone who is miserable
all the time. They want the person they
originally fell in love with.........So
despite how you are feeling you always
need to present the best side of you in
public. Dress nicely so you look great
and above all plaster a smile on your
face. Even if you feel like you are going
to die from the pain, you never know
when you will meet your ex or a
mutual friend, so act happy; even if it is
the performance of your life. You can
cry into your pillow when you are
home alone.
3) Don’t let your life stop: =>> Yes! I
said you could cry into your pillow but I
didn’t mean all day every day. Feeling
miserable after a break up is natural
but if you wallow in self pity, you
generally end up feeling worse. There
is more to life than any partner so get
out there and start enjoying yourself.
You may have to pretend for a while
but soon you will find that you are
actually having fun again.
4) Don’t over-analyze what went
wrong: =>> Yes we need to learn from
our mistakes but the breakup may not
have been your fault. It could simply
be that the other person got scared of
commitment i.e. cold feet. If they get in
contact , agree to meet them for a
coffee or tea and see how things go.
Be polite and listen to what they have
to say. If they want you back, don’t be
too eager, but agree to see how it
goes......If you were the one who
finished things, but now realize you
made a mistake, tell your ex. They are
not mind readers and they won’t know
you want to rekindle your love affair
unless you tell them.
Men and women often get things
wrong as we see life so differently.
Sometimes we have to split from our
partner to realize what we had was real
love. Often a break and a little
communication goes a long way to
overcoming a breakup and getting
back together.
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